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Handling Elementary School Social Struggles

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The author of Little Girls Can Be Mean gives very good advice in this article. All kids go through struggles in school. I was shocked to see just how soon it starts. I do remember these kinds of social struggles happening when i was in school but now it seems as if it's getting earlier and earlier. I like the way the article lays out the steps to bully proofing your princess. Observe, Connect, Guide, Support.

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MinisterAMazin

Parents, family, friends, clergy and school officials really need to pay attention to this. Things have changed since we were little children and with the internet, television and the video games children really are hurtful to each other. Growing up I did not like being friends with girls because I was a tomboy but I watch the little girls in church and the way they act especially little divas that say you are not my friend you can not sit by me or other mean nasty things, what it parents notice the signs. We also need to listen when children tell us things, guiding is not bossing, and support is essential. In my son's school in De Soto years ago their little friend who was 12 years old committed suicide. We all failed to observe, connect, guide and support.

    Reply#1 - Thu Nov 11, 2010 12:07 PM EST
    D.Cahn

    This article gave great tips. I feel the tips are very simple and easy to do. By considering the average school age girl these steps seems very effective. Out of the four tips, I feel that the support is the most important one. The reason why is because you can't go through anything without support.

      Reply#2 - Thu Nov 11, 2010 12:42 PM EST
      Meagan McDonald

      12 year olds committing suicide? This is a bigger problem than I thought. I like that the article says to just ask and not try to tell the kids what to do all the time. It's awesome to have some advice like this available. Hopefully it well help someone out.

        Reply#3 - Thu Nov 11, 2010 10:55 PM EST
        Ruth.Nelson

        Yes, girls are so much more emotional than boys and in my personal opinion are the meanest of them all. I believe it when you say a 12 year old committed suicide. Just go watch how they treat each other one day in school. It will shock you.

          Reply#4 - Fri Nov 12, 2010 3:08 PM EST
          Jamie Salter

          Oh no that is so sad. I like how this article gives tips because, I think, in so many cases, parents really don't know how to address these problems. I think they don't realize how different school is now than when we were in school. Apparently it's changed quite a bit.

            Reply#5 - Tue Nov 16, 2010 4:07 PM EST
            NicQuana

            Hey I believe that many parents don't know how to handle the pressure children are facing today. The article makes good points on how to handle these social pressure. Most of the kids who commit suicide are males, so what does this mean. To me it means that our boys are faced with pressure to be a "man" and don't show emotions. However young boys need to be just that, young boys. They should not have to feel the need to conform to what society says a boy or man should be.

              Reply#6 - Thu Nov 25, 2010 1:21 AM EST
              Ruth.Nelson

              That's a very good point. I'm not sure if it's this class or the other one I'm in but we had a chapter dealing with this subject. Specifically how males are raised to be men in that they are not suppose to show any emotions or feeling and they are to be strong not wimps. I'm sure boys these days feel that pressure every day for either their parents or from school.

                Reply#7 - Thu Nov 25, 2010 9:38 PM EST
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